Talking about the love we certainly are not strangers anymore because the words are always ringing ears to us, let's say when we listen to the radio, there's a song that sang about love or when we read a book or novel, we would prefer the theme of romance and It is a natural thing because at the age of puberty is a time when someone got interested with the opposite sex and it was always associated with love. Definition of love itself is difficult to distinguish boundaries or understanding, for love is one form of emotions and feelings of the individual. And sifatnyapun subjective so that each individual will have different meanings depending on the appreciation and experience. Types of Love by Kelly in adolescent reproductive health books share that love into 3 types: 1. Love for lust That is the love that resulted in the relationship between two people no longer controlled, highly controlled emotional common sense so that the behavior seemed to occur spontaneously to respond to excessive emotional stimulation 2. Pragmatic love ie a balance of love between two people, there is a sense of joy and sorrow, serta of reciprocity. 3. Altruistic love usually occurs in a mother to her child, love is accompanied affection that has no end. Love is in the realm of emotional and rational. This emotional love came and went without a predictable, say: I love you at first sight, although I'm not happy with him I still love him, etc.. The characteristics of emotional love • There is a very strong feeling, normally directed to the opposite sex, which is on the mind and heart is a shadow of her lover • There is selfishness, there is usually hopes that her boyfriend is an ideal that is her mind and was disappointed when her lover is different from what he expected • Emotional Love contains elements of eroticism, which usually would like to express his love by holding hands, hugging, etc.. While rational love not dominated by a strong feeling but more in mind. Rational love is usually not care if his feelings to someone who mastered it rewarded or not, because the main characteristic of this love is to give selflessly and unconditionally. Psychological and Physiological Reactions Appear On The Love When people are more in love, then the body will produce hormones Phenthylamine (PEA), the effect is an increase in body temperature, sugar and blood pressure, heart rate will be faster and sweating, the person is also a curious, embarrassed, excited (excited), and happy. Signs of Love Love is a very subjective, one person with another person would explain it differently. But there are signs that indicate the existence of feelings of love: 1. there are elements of relevance and admiration love is usually preceded by a sense of fascination and admiration, whether due to physical appearance, personality traits, skills or materials. Which makes things a person is interested in every person is different-bada. 2. remember keep in mind feelings of love makes the thought of his loved ones are always present in memory. 3. of sacrifice feelings of love lead to feelings of wanting to do anything that can be happy and fun person who loved 4. the existence of sexual attraction usually appear curiosity and desire to always meet the physical touch Love At First Views Love at first sight of this new persona on stage on physical attraction alone. Love is falling in passionate love is characterized by a great longing to meet. Attraction at first sight it can change and develop into love, but must be followed by the next process of introduction and exploration. Different Love And Honey Usually these people differentiate more in love with the opposite sex (boyfriend or husband), while it is true love in general (parents, siblings)
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